When we met the right person to be loved, and when we are in place at the right time, That's an opportunity, not choice. When we meet someone who makes you interested, It's not a choice, that opportunity. Met in an event, not an option, Itupun is an opportunity.
However,
If we decide to love that person, even with all its shortcomings, was not chance, it is a choice.When we choose together with someone even though whatever happens, It is a choice, not chance. Even when we realize that there are many other people the more interesting, more intelligent, richer than our partner and we still choose to love him, it's not a chance, That's the choice.
Feelings of love, sympathetic, interested, Come as a chance for us and faster than the speed of light. however, the eternal true love is a choice. Choices we do. Talking about the soul mate, There is a quote from the movie that might be very appropriate:
Fate brought us together, but still depends on us how to make things work!
Can soulmates really exist. And even so maybe there's someone Who created just for us. But still belongs to us to make a choice whether you want to do something to get it, or not ... We may happen to meet our soul mate, but to love and stay with our soul mate, is the choice we have to do.
We are in the world not to find the perfect person to love, BUT to learn to love someone who is not perfect with the perfect way.
